Some Say Love

As someone who has not dated/had a committed relationship yet, I guess I could say I don't really know what I am looking for. When I think of having a relationship the first characteristic that comes to mind is friendship. I see friendship as a form of love because a friend is someone who cares for you, laughs with you, and has a special bond through everything that you do together. This special bond may be heard in Taylor Swifts song "You belong with me" because in the lyrics the listener sees that she is the life long friend that cares for him and shares common interests with him while he is with a girl who is not treating him like a friend should. A guy who I love will probably be the same person who is my best friend that makes be smile and laugh. This quality is seen a lot in music and coincidentally in some of my favorite songs."Your my Best Friend" by Queen exemplifies my feelings exactly by stating all the good parts of their friendship. Other songs that show this quality are "I'm Just Waiting on a Friend" by the Rolling Stones and "Your still the one" by Orleans. In both songs love is seen in either seen in someone who is looking for a friend or someone who has been friends for a while and still shares the same love that they had from the beginning of their relationship. I don't believe in the quest for a soul mate. I don't think you should go out in the world and analyze every boy you meet to see if they have everything on your list to be your soul mate. I do believe that people have soul mates but if it is a relationship that was really meant to be than it will come together in a natural way and you probably wont even know its happening. Maybe my best friend/ soul mate could hop and bop to the crocodile rock together one day and then I would know he is the one.